LabFAU Building a window on the functioning of my PC, I pay some kind words to one of my faithful companions during my studies in design: "The Magic Putty MARSON.
could talk about the things I did with it or techniques I used, but my fragile memory and toxic effects of the same putty me from spinning ideas coherently in that direction, lol, so I better retell an association came to mind this morning after a night special.
conversation Wednesday night with Carol and I mentioned a story about the putty, when it was a workshop model for Year 2 and waited all night to dry on a cardboard structure. Short story, was unable to deliver because it never got hard and it was because I knew we had to apply the 'catalyst' that comes in a separate tube from the jar. Depending on the amount of catalyst will be the length of time until it hardens. That is, the gray paste that comes in the jar is useless without the red pulp of the tube and vice versa, but that when combined produce the intended result of hardening, that is, the 'magic':)
That got me thinking about my emotional experiences (not to say that they are toxic or sticky or anything like that) in the sense of thinking about the role that each party to begin to catalyze the relationship and that is the expected result if both agree. Think individually and not considering the expectations of the other part is the same as being contained in the jar or even remove the gray paste and apply it as such. You can fill an area or putting together a volume, but is somewhat unstable, which easily will become amorphous and unstructured. And the red paste if does not have a material which will be mixed equally useless target.
People can be united as the photo, but is that what is sought to be in a relationship? Only spend together, but each one contained in the container? It's so obvious that each material must be used to serve, and the product Use get something new, rejoining to everyone regardless of the quantitative assessment of the story. Just apply a drop of hardener for an amount much higher than a pingpong ball, for instance.
But that part is just the beginning of work, and once applied the putty until it hardens, it must be processed to obtain the type of surface you want, or grinding, polishing, re-caulking, rigging up the application painting. The same happens with couples in my opinion.
The raw material used, and in that sense people are committed to deliver, to be 'used' in agreement to form this 'pasta magic' that is only the beginning in the stabilization of relationship, because then they will all work beautification, polishing by hand, checking with the touch, vision, breathing and feeling even waste even a little dizzy from the effects of this major effort is to shape a life from two .
Now I wonder what kind of chemical reactions make it work and allow the putty so remarkable result, but even more disturbing and amazing is to think and wonder about what kind of reactions occur in people to achieve something with elements 'intangible' as words, affection, looks, mutual support, and generating such heat that I can think of the large release of energy (divine maybe) that moves us to want to blend in and stop being a raw material enclosed in a container useless.
